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Wednesday, September 15, 2010
The drawing board.
Yup, I screwed it up. He is upset with me. But if he can't understand my fears and what I've been through, screw him. Back to the drawing board, I guess. Fuck.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling a little hesitant about the situation...it would be weird not to. And he can surely understand WHY any normal person would feel that way. If he's mad about that, then maybe it's for a reason. There's nothing wrong with being cautious about online, long distance relationships!! I've been in a wonderful relationship for 3.5 years that began just that way, and we were both quite cautious at first and both questioned the other's honesty before we met in person. You just do what's right in your heart.
IMHO it's okay to put the breaks on. it would freak me out too. It was just so fast how he latched on to you and then is moving (?) out to be with you? who does that?
Sweetie you've been through a lot! If the man isn't capable of understanding that and being patient, then he isn't the one for you.
ReplyDeleteDon't beat yourself up about it, the world's good enough at doing that :)
There is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling a little hesitant about the situation...it would be weird not to. And he can surely understand WHY any normal person would feel that way. If he's mad about that, then maybe it's for a reason. There's nothing wrong with being cautious about online, long distance relationships!! I've been in a wonderful relationship for 3.5 years that began just that way, and we were both quite cautious at first and both questioned the other's honesty before we met in person. You just do what's right in your heart.
ReplyDeleteIMHO it's okay to put the breaks on. it would freak me out too. It was just so fast how he latched on to you and then is moving (?) out to be with you? who does that?
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