Someone REALLY pissed me off at work and that rarely happens. Some brat always has to screw up a great situation, I swear. I also rarely lose my cool but had to put someone in their place today. I hate that.
I'm also in a little trouble and I need advice from the masses. Gary is really getting serious with me and he kinda wigged today when I mentioned something "a guy" said to me. He is all freaked that I am going to find someone else. If I told him I was dating (but nothing serious) I think he would have a heart attack. I'm not kidding. We talked about it tonight, and I told him to chill, but should I take this behavior as a compliment or run? I don't want some crazy jealous guy (and there is no ring on this finger), but he is so sweet and is so honestly worried that he will lose me. I told him how I felt about him getting jealous and he apologized profusely, but still. Red flag? I don't know. I really like him, but I haven't even met him in person yet. I probably ought not to tell him of the blog just yet. LOL.
Red flag! Don't run away or end things but this needs honest discussion, even if it is difficult or means losing him. I have a very jealous husband, not in a dangerous way, but honestly it's ridiculous. Had I known he was so jealous and insecure before we married (very quickly) it would have made me think twice. As you say, there's not a ring on your finger but dealing with someone else's insecurities all the time can be pretty fucked up. As independent as you seem to be you want a man who has confidence in your relationship and what he brings to it, not someone who worries he'll lose you to someone else.
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