Saturday, September 19, 2009


I had this post in my head that I wanted to write, but now I've lost most it. I hate that. It was written well in my head, but now I fear it will sound discombobulated and stupid. Oh well, I guess I'll give it a shot anyway.

What I wanted to talk about is this...

The people you cross paths with in life. We all come across many people, but every now and then someone comes along that has an impact on you. Someone that you never forget that either made you feel a certain way, or did/said something that changed you forever. It could be as simple as a clerk in store, or someone you've become good friends with. Most of the time you forget or are unmoved by people, but occasionally an extraordinary one comes along. Usually, I've noticed, they have no idea about the impact they've had on you (unless you tell them). And so rarely we tell them - out of fear of sounding crazy. I know I have had this happen to me. I'm not sure if people come into your life for a reason or not (fate), but it sure feels like it sometimes, doesn't it? It is funny when I try to tell people that - they never believe it. Maybe it is that I have not had an impact on them, but they have on me. Who knows. All I know is that I would not be the same person I am today without these people. ANYWAY, I don't remember where I was going with this. I think I was trying to say that there are certain people who have had a major, life altering impact on my life and I don't think they know it. I just want to say thanks, because it was a good impact. The thanks will go unnoticed I'm sure, but it is my way of expressing my gratitude the only way I can. Maybe it was you!

I can only hope that somewhere, somehow I have left a good impact on someone else.


Chele said...

I was catching up on blogs. Yours was the second I read. The first was an old friend who meant and means more to me in the short time we were close friends than anyone before or after. Thank you for inspiring me to go tell her this.

Cheryl said...

That's great Chele! That makes me feel good, too.

Daedak said...

I agree. We have one shot at this thing called life, and it is not like we have an expiration date on out butts. We do not know how long we will be here. It is so important to tell those people in our lives what they mean to us. We may never get the chance again.

Blasé said...'re welcome!